THE PSYCHOLOGY OF MONEY, PROSPERITY AND ABUNDANCE

THE PSYCHOLOGY OF MONEY, PROSPERITY AND ABUNDANCE

A nice text to reflect the new year.
Text by Kris D'Alo

What prevents people from succeeding financially and have abundance in their lives? The answer is generally focused around the belief that financial success is not a possibility. Many people create multiple barriers preventing them from achieving abundance.
If you have limiting beliefs about money at an unconscious level, it will be difficult financial constraints because your unconscious mind will block their efforts to succeed. This is why some people end up living paycheck to paycheck life - at some level they do not believe that they can do better.
Although there is a positive intention behind its financial barriers, many people do not identify what those intentions. Then there are those who understand the positive intention at some level, but still do not know how to overcome these obstacles.
Many people think conscious level that they are doing everything possible to achieve their goals. However, there are still some parts of the unconscious that does not believe they can succeed. The more a person avoids that unconscious part, the more obstacles will still appear in your day to day. This is the way the mind works.
For example, consider a person you know who read every book on think and grow rich ', attend financial seminars, say daily affirmations and still have money problems. All these things he is making are valid, but often do not reach the "core" of their problem that usually involves some type of limiting belief.
People have very different beliefs about money. Some of the most common are:
You need money to make money.
I do not have enough money to make plans.
I'm too old, do not know what to do.
If I invest, the market will surely fall.
Finances are very complicated.
All these are beliefs about cause and effect, which really have little to do to achieve abundance. Such beliefs limit people because they're looking for answers elsewhere, when in fact the key to prosperity exist within themselves.
Abundance is not what a person has. It is a state of mind. Many people who succeed in life in the financial aspect, often have positive beliefs about prosperity and abundance. When one understands and moves the field of cause and effect to the idea of "What is possible?" in her world, she moves to a totally different level, which after all is more rewarding because it is expanding its mental contexts on the money.
Many people, instead of focusing on what is possible, spend too much time thinking about what they do not. An interesting pattern develops in which they become angry and resentful about their situation, which creates more restrictions and barriers in their lives. It's much easier to get ahead in life when you come to a peaceful state of mind versus an angry and resentful. The first step in helping a person is to explore the nature of your problem.
For example, the person may have had parents who lived in poverty and therefore formed a mentality of "Depression era." For this reason, she develops an unconscious belief that you always have money problems because that's what their parents did. Or she may have had a father who told him repeatedly that they never have that problem, and eventually they began to believe.
It is very common for children to unconsciously form limiting beliefs about money since childhood. These types of limiting beliefs are presented as "imprints" in NLP. An imprint is basically a memory that is formed at an early age, and can serve as a source for both the limiting belief as to the empowering belief that we form as children.
Some of the beliefs that we may develop in childhood are not always healthy, and are created as a result of a traumatic or confusing experience that we forget. The way we consciously or unconsciously, we see the world in terms of money is usually based on such beliefs.
Identify the limiting beliefs is the first step. Once you've identified what some of these beliefs / imprints, you can use different NLP techniques to move through those obstacles, allowing you to see and experience all the financial opportunities that normally are at his disposal.
Beliefs about the possibilities
The main psychological difference between those who do well financially and those who do not revolves around beliefs about possibilities. For example, many people do not view financial success as an option. They have the ability to explore all the possibilities that are available for achieving abundance.
Often they get stuck in the routine of everyday life and are unwilling to take risks or try something different because they are afraid of ending up worse than it is. What these people do not realize is that it is common to have to take a step back to move forward.
Many millionaires have broken at some point in their lives then in a short period, turn completely to better your financial situation. Moreover, they do so believing that your new business will grow so that they're earning a nice salary plus a substantial profit.
Not everyone needs to take risks or take a step back to get ahead, but it is important to consciously explore the idea of what is possible for you. To embrace this idea, first you must have the ability to change their daily routine by doing something different. This includes learning to see the world through the eyes of prosperity and abundance instead of lack and poverty.
Try it for a moment:
Think of something you want and all the possibilities you have to achieve it. Ask yourself, "Is it possible?"
Now try something different.
Think about something you have not, but I would like to have. Think about why you do not have it and how you wish you could have it.
Notice which one makes you feel better.
I hope that the first statement made you feel better because it was designed to expand your unconscious and conscious about prosperity and abundance. It's amazing what can happen to a person once he has changed his attitude and beliefs about the possibilities. One begins to see results almost instantly. The changes may be small, but as they continue to embrace their new way of thinking, a magical world becomes accessible to her.
For example, many years ago a number of Vietnamese "who lived on boats" immigrated to the United States. Many Americans were concerned about the impact it would create in the health service and other government services as a result of these people coming into the country. It was very interesting because many of the Vietnamese who started their own businesses made themselves extremely well. Why did it happen?
An obvious answer might be because the Vietnamese have come from a country where if you say the wrong thing, you can be killed. Then they came to the United States where the worst thing that could happen was someone to call and complain about a bill that had not been paid.
If you come from a world where death is a reality from moment to moment to a place where options are endless, so there's no reason not to try everything. Instead of feeling sad about having to leave their country, they were grateful to be alive. Instead of being in a bad mood and pain, many of them have adopted a creative attitude that revolved around the question "What is possible?"
When they moved here, two or three Vietnamese families in a confined space. They went out and got minimum wage jobs and gathered all the money they earned. When they got enough money, bought a business and the whole family worked together. When the business began to succeed, they bought a property. After buying another, and so they went.
For these Vietnamese, success was an affirmation of what is possible, because everything was possible for them. They were willing to suffer for a time to achieve the long-term goal of abundance and prosperity. It was simply a matter of priority and how they categorized the different possibilities. People can do whatever they want. The question is: what are they willing to do to accomplish your goal?????????????

Patience is a virtue

It is very common for most people in Germany to save money for a purchase order they want to do. In Germany, the only debt that many have is the mortgage on their homes and what they should purchase the car. In other countries it is common for people to abuse the credit cards and get in huge debt beyond the traditional house and car.
Many Germans are happy to save for something special, because it looks forward to the reward will get what they want. And soon to obtain, immediately start saving for your next item or for a vacation.
It's interesting how the Germans have the ability to delay instant gratification that a debit card can bring. It is with anticipation and excitement that await the day they get what they want. They do not regret for a minute that they are obliged to set aside money to reach your next goal. Instead, they focus on how they are grateful for what they have, and wait patiently to get what they want.
The ability to delay gratification is a skill to master, a triumph of the reasoning brain over the impulsive, according to Daniel Goleman, Ph. D., who wrote the book Emotional Intelligence. The author concludes that people who are able to exercise patience to delay gratification are more likely to succeed in life.
Goleman documents a study that was conducted in 60 in which a researcher invites children to a common room, one by one, and gives each one a marshmallow. "You can have this marshmallow right now," he says, "but if you wait a little while I go out for a moment, when I return I bring another marshmallow." And then he leaves.
Apparently, some kids take the marshmallow immediately and others wait a few minutes before they fall into temptation. But others are determined to wait. They close their eyes, sing, bow their heads, play a game or even fall asleep. They will do anything to resist. When the researcher returns, he gives the second marshmallow they won.
A survey of parents of children and the teachers found that those with four years of age had the ability to endure waiting for the second marshmallow generally grow up being better adjusted, more popular, adventurous, confident and teens safer.
According to Goleman, is conclusive evidence that patience seems to play a leading role in the success of many people. The ability to resist the impulse can be developed through practice.
When you encounter an immediate temptation, how to spend money on something you really do not need to remember their long-term financial goals. Reframe your current financial situation to realize that you really are saving for an abundant future.
If people were willing to suffer a little by spending less because they can invest those savings later, so they are on track to achieve prosperity.
Abundance is a state of mind
Often people who are confused with how much money they earn. Whether someone wins a million dollars per year or only fifteen thousand, one still has the capacity to attain a certain degree of abundance in your life.
For example, when the Nazis occupied Germany, there were very rich people in society who have had their lives torn apart and they ended up in concentration camps. Viktor E. Frankle and Anne Frank were in extreme poverty, but still had an abundant life.
Viktor E. Frankle, in his book "Man's Search for Meaning," says one thing that the person has and that can never be stolen is your attitude.
"We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving them their last piece of bread. They could be few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last freedom. Choose your own attitude in any situation, is to choose your own path. "
Frankle, a psychologist, has adopted a creative attitude that helped him survive the nightmare of a concentration camp. He was able to manifest abundance inner exercising their right to do so. When he left, this attitude led him on a path towards achieving and living a prosperous life.
Prosperity, abundance and eigenvalue
When you think about prosperity, it is helpful to understand what is a resource that flows through us. We are a channel for abundance. Once this is realized, we begin to identify the fact that we ourselves who choose how to channel this feature. Viktor Frankle made this distinction in a concentration camp. He was stripped of each of its material possessions, including his shoes. The only thing he had left was his ability to believe in yourself and embrace the idea that he was still a good person, despite the fact that you have taken everything.
This is an important distinction to make, because then having money is no longer a matter of self-worth. Money does not determine who you are, is simply a resource. Having a strong inner sense of self is what is truly important. Money is merely an external element. Once people stop comparing your self-worth with money, the doors of possibilities open up because they're willing to try other things. They feel good about themselves, they become less fearful and are open to trying something completely different.
It's just a matter of saying to yourself, "Here's the result I want and there are several ways to achieve it. Several possibilities. If one does not work, so I'll try another one."
And if the next does not work, simply feedback that you need to try something else. That does not mean you're a failure or a terrible person. It simply means that there is something out there that will eventually work and something that is outside of you. You house is still the same person.
Measuring only one eigenvalue of the amount of money that one has can be devastating. For example, here was a woman who had 17 million dollars set aside in a trust fund by her parents. This fund would yield at least $ 800,000 a year and would last all his life. This person found their identity and self worth in the lifestyle that she lived and how much she had. For example, once shopping spree, she spent $ 18,000 in the lingerie section of department store.
Most of the actions she took when it came to spending large sums of money were the result of comparing herself to her sister. The sister was in the same situation and they had a trust fund that paid a lot. However, his sister never looked at money as an aspect of their identity. She never determined their self-worth by how much she had.
For her, all that money meant she had something to fall if there was ever a problem in the future. She married and started several businesses with her husband. Were extremely successful in their own right and, after some years, income from trust fund it has become relatively small compared with the profits from the businesses they had developed.
It is interesting because the woman who based their identity and self worth in their funds, spending large sums of money to keep up with her sister. She eventually went bankrupt. This is an extreme example of someone who measures their self worth by how much money you have.
The woman's situation became more complicated when she started comparing herself with her sister, who is also a statement about their self worth. It is common for a person to compare their financial status with anyone, and sadly, this is the source of much emotional pain that people carry. People tend to compare themselves to friends, coworkers, family members and many others.
When people compare themselves with someone, what they're doing is really a trial between themselves and the other person. At some level, they are basing their identity and self-worth on external elements.
When someone decides to compare and judge less frequently, will begin to notice amazing changes in his life because he'll be viewing life from the inside looking out. He will be internally referenced, which will increase their self worth and identity because he will determine who he is from your own heart. He will not give more to other people the opportunity to determine who he is, because he'll know in a more profound and spiritual ..
When one compares to another, there is a positive intention behind his behavior, even though the behavior may appear to have fewer resources. When she begins to understand these positive intentions, and they often revolve around self-worth and identity, it will begin to heal the wound unconscious that is preventing it from reaching prosperity and abundance. Again, this is where limiting beliefs and imprints come into play.
The identity of a person is not something that happens suddenly as if by magic. It's something the person builds over time. She has experience and interpret this experience in his brain. Take this experience gives her some level of discretion and stores. And at some level, she says "I draw on that experience." She has other experiences, stacking one on top of another. Many people tend to select and discard the negative positive. For a while, one begins, on purpose to pile in one direction and discards everything else. We are creatures of disposal. The positive intention behind choosing the negative is to protect the person from having another negative experience again.
In the end, one also forgets to choose the positive. She needs to learn to absorb all their positive experiences to balance. When a person brings within itself all the elements of a positive experience and removes the negative parts, she begins to realize that negative information is not on it. This makes it easier to hold on to all the positive aspects of a situation, and integrate them while free of the negative.
Get rid of the negative aspects of a situation, while integrating the positive, with the passage of time will dramatically change the financial situation of a person because she begins to develop a stronger sense of self worth. Instead of basing your self-worth on external elements of a paycheck, she develops a strong sense of self worth that gives you courage to try new things and expand their opportunities.
For example, there was a janitor who earned about $ 1,800 a month. After working some of his beliefs with NLP and some financial planning, he decided to start his own business. Started saving money and bought all the supplies she needed. He got a contract for cleaning close to his work and hired someone to perform the contract. He then got another and hired another to help him. After a while, he decided to quit his job and started his own cleaning company. He eventually, he realized a tremendous increase in his monthly salary and a sense of freedom they had never experienced before.
He was still doing the janitorial work. What changed was his self-worth. Instead of thinking "Oh, I'm just a caretaker, I can not do anything else, I am not very smart," he began thinking, "What is possible?" Everyone needs someone to come in and clean. The houses and schools need. They're hiring me to do that, then why do not I just get the other side of the fence and start my own business.
That's how you explore the possibilities. It begins with a dream. Then it's a matter of turning that dream into reality .. When a person begins to accept their own self worth and is open to the idea that it is possible, it attracts abundance and prosperity into your life. The outside world is a reflection of our inner world. If someone in his heart, is feeling well, this is often reflected in their appearance, and it will attract positive experiences into your life. This is how life works.